Lucy Bolin

I was born in Poland. Saying my goodbyes at Warsaw airport and setting off on my first-ever trip abroad at 19 with the American Institute for Foreign Studies, I had no clue that what was supposed to be a one-year stay in Philadelphia and Washington DC would turn into a long-term expat journey.

After leaving the US, I returned to Poland to start my BA in teaching English and completed it in Germany, thanks to the Erasmus student exchange program. Then I was off to the UK where I did my master’s in cross-cultural communication for international business and landed my first non-student jobs at Bosch and Harley Davidson.

Enticed by the opportunity to do a PhD, I accepted a post at a university in Germany. But, after 2 yrs, I realised that working in academia was not dynamic enough for me. I moved to Frankfurt and discovered the corporate world of “Learning & Development” in a fast-paced British recruitment firm which had me deliver workshops not only in Germany, Austria and Switzerland, but also in the UK, Norway, Luxembourg, France, Belgium, Holland, Spain, Ireland, the US, Brazil, UAE, Singapore, Japan, India and Australia.

Then one day I got a call from a headhunter, and I just couldn't turn down his offer. A few months later I was on a plane to Barcelona to work as a talent manager for another, even faster-paced company where I put all my skills into practice across sales, IT, marketing, finance and HR.

Barcelona felt like home from day one. I loved the vibe, the architecture, the possibilities. I was ready to settle down. Eager to meet new people, I hopped on the metro one Friday evening to attend an expat networking event and, on getting off the train, I met my now husband.

Though my heart belonged to Barcelona, we moved to the French Riviera when we had our baby. I took an online master’s course with Que Me Pongo, a Barcelona-based image consultancy, to satisfy my curiosity about personal branding, image and style. With the new knowledge I had added to my repertoire, opening my own coaching practice seemed like the logical next step. Having lived in six and worked in 24 countries, on four continents across five industries, I couldn’t have asked for better preparation. Being home with my nine-month old, I thought I couldn't have asked for a better moment to swap my corporate hat for the many different hats of an entrepreneur. However, having to juggle all the roles and struggling to integrate into France, I felt overwhelmed and lonely at the onset of my entrepreneurial journey. I missed being part of a team, meeting new people from all corners of the globe and learning from them. I wasn’t one of those coaches who “quit corporate to escape the nine-to-five and create a life of freedom and impact.”

Yet, entrepreneurship was calling me. Running my own business takes me outside my comfort zone every day, and this is what I thrive on. The learning is so intense, the versatility of the tasks mind-blowing, the mindset key, the vision vitally important. My coaching business allows me to be the generalist and the expert at the same time. I get to choose who I work with and on what terms. Apart from being expats, who are my clients? Entrepreneurs, business owners, coaches, engineers, pharmacists, diplomats, PhD researchers, medical doctors and project managers, marketing leaders, recruiters scattered all across the globe with the same single desire: to make the best of this one life leveraging their talents. They are driven, highly-motivated and ambitious. However, due to their high expectations, they can get stuck and lose their sense of direction and meaning if things don’t go according to plan.
Convinced they should be able to figure it all out by themselves, they’re often embarrassed to acknowledge their struggles and too ashamed to reach out for help. As a result, they end up overwhelmed, stressed, disappointed and confused about the next step. Admitting the hardship is often seen as failure in their eyes, so they suffer in silence until they turn to a coach to accompany them and keep them accountable. I’m on a mission to show them that because we are all resourceful individuals, they are capable of embracing change and turning every challenge into an opportunity.

My greatest challenge has been to practice mindfulness throughout all of my transitions. Yoga and running have been my best remedies to being in the moment when “the here” keeps changing and “the now” is blurred with the last place you were in and the next place you’re thinking about.

That’s one of the reasons I yearned to have a more solid base. I considered returning to Poland when I retire, and building a house on the land my dad used to plow. Becoming a mom and shortly thereafter losing my dad accelerated those plans. Then COVID-19 hit and repatriation was an easy decision. Being in Poland now, I’m grateful I can be there for my widowed mom, and the grief is easier to embrace when I can visit my dad’s grave and feel his presence.

I’m living in Gdansk again—20 years, six countries and five languages later—with my own little family next to my larger extended one. As I expand Lucy Bolin Coaching and serve expats across cultures, I look forward to what life has in store and where it will take me next.